A google introduction to conscious parenting.

https://www.teach-through-love.com/conscious-parenting.html

13 PRINCIPLES OF CONSCIOUS PARENTING

by Alfie Kohn

Be reflective.
Reconsider your requests.
Stay focused on your long-term goals.
Put your relationship first.
Change how you see, not just how you act.
R-E-S-P-E-C-T.
Be authentic.
Talk less, ask more.
Be mindful of your child's age.
Attribute to children the best possible motive consistent with the facts.
Don't stick to no's unnecessarily.
Don't be rigid.
Don't be in a hurry.